The Man Woman Game

freaking out (need your help)

MY QUESTION TO YOU

How would ~you~ react if I chose to help/participate in
a tasteful sex education video?

Would you be offended? Consider it a good deed? Or don't care?

Please tell me your answer here in the comments - I'd LOVE your thoughts

Wild Nights

From "Wild Nights", by David Deida....

Relationship is bondage, unless your love is larger than the cult.

Love is a wound. Love hurts. You must learn to live wide open; hurting open with love.

If you are bound to objects - even people you truly love - then you suffer, because they can’t deliver what you want from them.

These boys, they’re going to fantasize about sex with young women for the rest of their lives. And by the time the ladies are saggy and wrinkled, and the men are too old to care, it’ll be too late. They won’t have the energy to open beyond their shriveled concerns for a better life. A day without too much pain will be good enough. And when they start dying, they’ll be horrified.

No-one is willing to feel the bliss of the Great One, because they are wrapped up in sex, or wishing they were.

I was using the affection and flesh that now surrounded me to pad myself from the stark free-fall of utter surrender, from the nothingness of deep, open being.

The feeling of tragedy dissipated, leaving only a deep love, wounded to be sure, but also eternal.

One day Michelle, your tits will hang like soggy pancakes and your ass will sag to your knees. You’ll wake up in the morning, put your dentures in and paint your rotting face, and wonder which of your friends died today.

She’s not your mother. As good as her love feels, as warm as her love fills your heart, you are clinging to the tit and missing the moment’s depth. You are afaid to feel totally alone – that is, so open there is no other. NO OTHER.

You need an other so you can be assured of yourself. And the one you want, the one that gives you the most assurance, is your mother. You want to feel her warmth, her smell, her support, her devotion to you – you won’t let go of that.

On the surface, it looked like he and his teacher were at war. But the war was always already over, and love had won, even if the fight continued to appear on the surface.

“You have been given a burden of bliss”, Mykonos said quietly, but with absolute intention. “You know what you have to do”. “This burden is my gift to you”.

It’s time to sit down and have dinner with the monster. (this one from David Holloway)

Issue #10: Handling the Down Rides

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships*

We all wish we could have that fairy tale relationship,
where we indeed live happily ever after. With the
material that Michael Webb shares in 50 Secrets of
Blissful Relationships, Volume I and II - now it will be
possible.

In this ebook you will learn when you should be critical
of your spouse and how to do it so he or she is grateful.
You will learn about the game those in blissful
relationships play that keep them from getting angry or
upset with each other. There are even chapters that
cover the secrets of finding and dating that person with
which you can build a blissful relationship. If you aren't
currently in a relationship, then this material will help
you from making the mistakes so many other couples
make.

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/50secrets.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net


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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'HANDLING THE DOWN RIDES'

Some people are wonderful partners when everything is
going well, but turn into quite selfish beings when things
take a turn for the worse. You may be enjoying your
partner while he or she is happy, but want to get away from
or yell at your partner when he or she is giving you
a hard time. Sometimes this is referred to as a 'fair
weather' friend.

It's a fact that sometimes your partner will take a 'down
ride,' that is, he or she will be unhappy about something,
and it doesn't look like it will be over in a few minutes!
You may want to improve or fix the situation - that can
sometimes work.

However, another approach is to allow the down ride. 
Support them, remember what you love about them, and
stay centered and content, love them, and know that they
will bounce back. In fact, you holding a centered space
can help them bounce back. In contrast, going 'down'
with them, getting unhappy too, buying into their sad story
or getting angry, may of course just make things worse.

They may want you to go 'down' with them....., not being
aware of the following little known fact: Sometimes
people want to take a down ride! And sometimes they will
want company.

If you are willing to enjoy your partner, and be with him or
her when a 'down ride' hits- that is, to go down with him
or her-  it can be a very intimate thing. Eventually they
will be ready to come up.

You wouldn't want to do this all the time. Sometimes it's a
gift to your partner to allow them to have their downride,
but NOT to go down with them. Sometimes it's best to
stay 'up', and hold the space for when they are ready to
feel better.

But for a change, you might try taking a downride with
them, consciously, when they are looking to go down or
have a bad time.

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to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


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Issue #9: Give Because It Feels Good

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*The Art of Approaching Women*

The Art of Approaching Women is a downloadable course
for men that teaches them how to be more successful
with meeting women and overcoming their fear of
rejection.

Some of the topics include:

*What are the 5 very common tell-tale signs that tell you
she's interested in you?

*How to quickly and easily avoid "psyching" yourself out of
approaching women?

*What is the "Golden Rule" of picking up women that
maximizes your chances of finally getting the girl you want
by 300%? 

*How to eliminate 5 destructive habits you can't ignore if
you want to meet the woman of your dreams???

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/artofapproach.htm

 
*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net


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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'GIVE BECAUSE IT FEELS GOOD'

Many times we give -in life and in a relationship- because
we want something in return. Usually, at some point down
the road we expect the other person to do something for us.
Or, at the very least, we expect appreciation or gratitude.

This is not giving; it is called 'barter'.

If you give to get something back, you're setting yourself
up for a fall. Besides, if you think about it, it's not
really giving at all; it's a contract - "I'll cook you
dinner tonight darling, but only if you're really grateful,"
or "I'll come home from work early but you had better
appreciate it."

Of course, if your attention is on your partner, you won't
want him or her to do anything in exchange for something
you've done. You'll only want your partner to do what he or
she wants to do!

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This information and a lot more is discussed in further
detail in the ebooks: "The Truth About Women" and "How
to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

THE 'MAN WOMAN GAME' NEWSLETTER

DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

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Issue #8: The Plight of Women

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets*

Would you like to enhance
the level of intimacy with your partner? To put more heat
and passion in your relationship?

In 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets by Michael Webb, you are
given the opportunity to discover hundreds of new, fun and
fresh tips that will take your lovemaking to a much higher
level.

http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/500tips.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must Know, In and
Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net

*Join the Relationship R&D Team!*

I'm working on an exciting new relationship book for women,
with a co-author. To get advance peaks at the
material, and have a part in actually developing the book
(e.g. you'll be able to ask questions of us,
which will then generate material for the book!), just send
a blank email to david38-233431@autocontactor.com

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/500tips.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net



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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'THE PLIGHT OF WOMEN'

In our shallow, conditioned world, much of a bride's
attractiveness or value in society comes from two
sources: 
1) her youthful beauty, and
2) her ability to bear children. 

Unfortunately, both diminish with age, with the result that
a woman might be considered less 'marketable' as she
gets older. 

(By contrast, a man gets more marketable as he gets
older. He accumulates wealth, experience; distinguished
grey appears at his temples)

The stigma that exists for women who are unattached
before their youth and fertility start to diminish can
cause them to be devalued by society.  With this
information, we can understand why a woman may feel
pressure to attract and 'keep' the man in the relationship
using whatever resources she has, including having sex with
her partner out of a sense of obligation.

One way well-meaning males can compensate for or
reverse this is by paying more attention to the women
in our lives. An exercise you can do to help facilitate
this is to schedule one hour with your partner (or a close
female friend if you are currently single) within the next
three days. Mention the issues discussed above, as you
understand them, and ask her what it's like to grow up
being a woman. LISTEN ;-)

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This information and a lot more is discussed in further
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to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

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DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

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Issue #7: Being in the Moment

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*1000 Questions for Couples*

How compatible are you and the person you are with? How
would you know? Just because you like the same types of
foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful,
long-term relationship.

In Michael Webb's book, 1000 Questions for Couples, there
are hundreds of fun "getting to know you" questions. There
are also important questions that most people don't even
think of asking but are important for a happy relationship.

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/1000questions.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed -  by David Wood*

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net



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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'BEING IN THE MOMENT'

We have all heard the saying: "It's a woman's prerogative
to change her mind." Yet, do we mean it?

Men tend to like certainty. Because they like to produce
and achieve goals, they also like to follow an idea to its
logical conclusion. Women, on the other hand, are generally
considered to be more prone to 'change their minds.'

We could speculate as to the reasons why women change
their minds but, in truth, it doesn't really matter. The
point is that a woman responds more to how she feels moment
by moment than a man, who may be more attached to the idea
of completing a thought or proposed action so that one
more goal can be achieved.

It is this very unpredictability of women that makes them
more interesting than men (in fact to both sexes!) The man
who decides to treasure this difference will have a much
more enjoyable life than the man who criticizes and
devalues it, as our masculine-oriented society is prone to
do.


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This information and a lot more is discussed in further
detail in the ebooks: "The Truth About Women" and "How
to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

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DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

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Issue #6: Women and Emotions

ISSUE #6: Women And Emotions

David Wood
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net
http://www.SolutionBox.com


IN THIS ISSUE:

* Announcements/Offers
* Feature Article: Women And Emotions 
* About this Newsletter


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ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*300 Creative Dates*

Going out for dinner and a movie is undoubtedly one of
the most popular dates couples experience. However, it
can also be one of the very worst -- especially for
couples who are early in the dating stage. In 300 Creative
Dates, Michael Webb explains why those dates are
potentially harmful to your relationship and how you can
plan a far more creative date with less money.

In this ebook you will also discover dozens of dates that
are perfect for long distance relationships. There are
dates specifically for celebrating the season, birthdays,
anniversaries and other special occasions. You will find
super inventive picnic date ideas and tips on making
dinner dates the most creative and romantic imaginable --
without spending a lot of money or time in preparation.

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/300dates.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed*  by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net



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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'WOMEN AND EMOTIONS'

Anyone ever tell you women are complicated? All the time,
yes? Fortunately, this also makes them more interesting.

Women are generally credited with a higher E.Q. (emotional
intelligence) than men. They tend to have a greater
awareness of people, and emotions. They also tend to have
greater access to a wider range of emotions. Men will often
complain about women thinking illogically (because
'logically' and 'rationally' is the only valid way to think
- right guys?) and going through mood swings. Yet, can you
imagine a world populated only by men?

Women give men access to this wider range of feeling. It's
through their joy and exultation that we're pulled to even
greater heights, and through their sorrow and tears that we
explore our saddest depths.

This is why some men have chosen to put more attention on
what their partner wants; more attention on making her
happy. Their life is enhanced and magnified through the
experience of their partner.

It's been said: 

"The life of a man on his own is predictable and black and
white.

The life of a man with a woman is Technicolor and covered
in glory."

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This information and a lot more is discussed in further
detail in the ebooks: "The Truth About Women" and "How to
Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

THE 'MAN WOMAN GAME' NEWSLETTER

DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

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Issue #5: Intuition

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*The Art of Approaching Women*

The Art of Approaching Women is a downloadable course
for men that teaches them how to be more successful
with meeting women and overcoming their fear of
rejection.

Some of the topics include:

*What are the 5 very common tell-tale signs that tell you
she's interested in you?

*How to quickly and easily avoid "psyching" yourself out of
approaching women?

*What is the "Golden Rule" of picking up women that
maximizes your chances of finally getting the girl you want
by 300%? 

*How to eliminate 5 destructive habits you can't ignore if
you want to meet the woman of your dreams???

---> http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/artofapproach.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David WOod

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net



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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'INTUITION'

The common thread that runs throughout this newsletter
so far is this: when the woman is happy, the man is often
happy too, both in and out of the bedroom. Here's
another explanation for how this is possible:

It is generally accepted that women tend to be more
intuitive than men. A woman can often intuit what a man
needs, before he has realized it himself. When I am
working too hard, it is my partner who will notice, and
suggest we go for a walk. When a man is trying to make
a decision about anything, he would be wise to heed a
woman's counsel, as she is likely to have a good sense
of what path would be more fulfilling for him.

A happy, content woman may encourage her partner to
take up yoga, have guitar lessons, change his diet, and
upgrade his clothes. She may help him heal that rift with
his father, appreciate the simple things, or choose an
occupation that suits him better. From getting dental work
done to writing a song, she can have a powerful influence
on his life.

An exercise the men might like to try (and women can do
this too; it can only have positive results) is to go up to
your partner right now and ask her for her advice on a
particular thing that you are wondering about. Just talk it
over with her and get her input. She could give you clarity
and a new perspective on the issue.

(And even if not - she'll appreciate being asked. So you
win either way ;-)

If you keep your partner happy so that her surplus spills
over onto you, she can take you places you wouldn't
normally go yourself.

You could argue that this works both ways – that men will
also notice such things about their partner. But it just
doesn't ring quite as true, does it?


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to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
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http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

THE 'MAN WOMAN GAME' NEWSLETTER

DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

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Issue #4: Great Sex

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships*

We all wish we could have that fairy tale relationship, where we indeed live happily ever after. With the material that Michael Webb shares in 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships, Volume I and II - now it will be possible.

In this ebook you will learn when you should be critical of your spouse and how to do it so he or she is grateful. You will learn about the game those in blissful relationships play that keep them from getting angry or upset with each other. There are even chapters that cover the secrets of finding and dating that person with which you can build a blissful relationship. If you aren't currently in a relationship, then this material will help you from making the mistakes so many other couples make.

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net



*Join the Relationship R&D Team!*

I'm working on an exciting new relationship
book for women, with co-author Cindy Joseph. To
get advance peaks at the material, and have a part
in actually developing the book (e.g. you'll be
able to ask questions of David and Cindy, which
will then generate material for the book!), just
send a blank email to david38-233431@autocontactor.com


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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'GREAT SEX’

What makes an absolutely incredible sexual partner
from the man's perspective? Let's think about this
for a second.

Okay – we know her willingness to experiment, and to
do anything we want is a huge plus. We also know that
an attractive face and figure doesn't hurt either.

However, I assert that the thing that makes a woman
the most rewarding and fulfilling as a sexual partner
for a man, is her ability to experience pleasure! If
a woman can orgasm outrageously (and ideally quite
vocally), we feel a deep sense of satisfaction in
having been able to please her. I'll go even further
and say that given a choice between our own orgasm
with a woman who is not enjoying the sex, and not coming
with a woman who has multiple orgasms and is eternally
grateful, nine out of ten men would choose the latter!

So this sexual example illustrates a fundamental principle
of winning relationships, which is that: men are most happy
when pleasing their woman. (So ladies, get ready for a lot
of pleasure!)

****

GOT A COMMENT? Let's hear you! Post your comment here:

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This information and a lot more is discussed in further
detail in the ebooks: "The Truth About Women" and "How
to Pleasure a Woman", found at:
http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net and
http://www.HowToPleasure.com


+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

THE 'MAN WOMAN GAME' NEWSLETTER

DAVID WOOD is a Professional Life Coach, speaker,
and author of 'The Truth About Women'
(http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net)

WANT CONTENT For Your Web Site or Ezine?
You may copy any of our articles and tips to your web site,
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Issue #3: Taking the Rap

ANNOUNCEMENTS/OFFERS

*500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets*
Would you like to enhance the level of intimacy with
your partner? To put more heat and passion in your
relationship?

In 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets by Michael Webb,
you are given the opportunity to discover hundreds
of new, fun and fresh tips that will take your
lovemaking to a much higher level.

http://www.TruthAboutWomen.net/500tips.htm

*The Truth About Women - What Every Man Must
Know, In and Out of Bed* by David Wood

Get your copy now at www.TruthAboutWomen.net

*Join the Relationship R&D Team!*

I'm working on an exciting new relationship
book for women, with co-author Cindy Joseph. To
get advance peaks at the material, and have a part
in actually developing the book (e.g. you'll be
able to ask questions of David and Cindy, which
will then generate material for the book!), just
send a blank email to david38-233431@autocontactor.com

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FEATURE ARTICLE: 'TAKING THE RAP’

'Taking the Rap' is a nice metaphor for taking
responsibility for something. You can do this in
all areas of your life and have it be beneficial,
especially in your relationships. What I'm going
to present here is a radical concept of taking
responsibility not only for the things you do but
also for some things that weren't your fault at
all – simply as a gift to your partner.

A really easy opportunity to do this is when
nothing has gone wrong (well, not yet anyway). For
example, there was one time when I went with my
partner to buy a swimsuit. I began to get frustrated
and wanted her to hurry up and make a decision on
which one to buy but I didn't say anything. I then
noticed she was getting frustrated herself and really
wanted my input. In a rare moment of clarity, I said:
"This one looks gorgeous. I insist we buy this one."
This made her happy because I took responsibility for
making that decision – so we both won.

'Taking the Rap' when something has already gone wrong
is tougher. So let's say, for example, that you agree
with your partner to meet him or her at a certain time
and you arrive late. Instead of giving your partner
reasons as to why you're late, and that you meant to
leave earlier, and saying that you're not really that
late, etc., you could take full responsibility and say something
like: "I'm sorry honey. I should have had more attention on
arriving when I said I would and called you to let you know
what was going on. I'll do better next time."

For bonus points, consider doing it some time when it’s
clearly not your fault. Suppose your partner has taken a long
time to get ready so you both arrive to the party late. Sometimes
my partner, feeling embarrassed, might appreciate it if I say
“Sorry everyone, my fault”.

Remember – you don’t HAVE to do this. I’m just saying that
sometimes it’s nice to let your partner – or anyone – off the
hook.

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